Let Resiliency Be Your Guide
- Establish caring relationships. Teachers must take time to connect with each of their students, says Benard. It's as simple as making eye contact at least once a day with each student, as simple as knowing each child's name, and as simple as noticing when a child is absent and saying the next day, "We missed you yesterday." These are actions that all adults who interact with children can take, asserts Benard.
- Deliver high-expectation messages. Teachers can help their students realize that, as Benard puts it, "they do indeed have a power within themselves" to rise above difficult circumstances. To do so, teachers and other adults in schools need to convey that they truly believe in each student's capacity to learn and to be successful in life. "Showing that somebody believes in you when you don't believe in yourself is so big," Benard states. Use a "strengths-focused" approach, she advises: First, identify the strengths and interests that each young person has, and then use those strengths and interests to address any challenges.
- Provide opportunities for active participation and contribution. Giving students a voice can be accomplished through classroom management approaches and instruction, Benard suggests. Students can help establish classroom rules that everybody can agree with, for example. Further, she adds, learning strategies such as cooperative learning provide opportunities for students to be resources for one another and convey to them that they can help one another learn. In terms of assessment, teachers can use strategies that invite students to reflect on their work. Benard recommends, for example, that teachers ask students to create portfolios and include items that represent their best work.
Taking Time to Make a Difference
Did You Know?
Contrary to what we may reasonably conclude, most young people facing all kinds of risks and challenges actually do succeed—in school and in life. According to Bonnie Benard "around 70 percent of young people in life's most challenging conditions can overcome the odds." This astounding finding may have implications for funding, Benard suggests; rather than building more prisons, for example, state and federal governments might better spend their money finding ways to nurture resiliency in children.
Recognizing Resiliency
Socially competent. Resilient children are able to connect with healthy people in their lives. They have good communication skills. They demonstrate empathy and are caring.
Good problem solvers. Children who overcome the obstacles in their lives are able to identify alternate sources of support. They look critically at their home and school environments, determine what is lacking, and then identify a neighbor or teacher who can fill in the gaps.
Self-aware. Call it self-efficacy or individuality, but resilient children know themselves—their strengths and their weaknesses—and have a sense of self-worth.
Optimistic. Perhaps one of the most important traits resilient children share is a sense of purpose. This includes having hope for the future and being persistent in striving to achieve their goals.
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Learn More About Resiliency
Bonnie Benard was interviewed for Breaking Through Barriers to Achievement, an ASCD video-based professional development program.
The three-tape program (also available on DVD) examines how administrators and teachers successfully work with students who are dealing with adversity but manage to succeed despite the odds. The program shows how educators can nurture this resiliency in their students by providing caring relationships, high-expectation messages, and opportunities to contribute to their communities in positive ways.
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